June 04, 2006

Flattered or At a loss what to do.

So, I was feeling lonely this afternoon, after winning $30 playing cards at my niece's 2nd birthday, and decided to take a ride.

I went into Portsmouth and just wandered around for a while. I got hungry after walking for about an hour and went into the Green Monkey.

The bar was pretty empty, compared to Friday night, and I sat down and looked over the martini menu. The bartender was different and the owner wasn't around either. I looked up when the door to the kitchen opened and our waitress from the other night walked through the door.

I went back to looking at my menu when she walked over and said, "Bob! Is that you hiding in the corner?" I was pretty darn flattered that she remembered me and my name. We chatted for a bit and she went back to waiting on her tables.

A little while later the bartender came over and told me that the waitress wanted to by me a drink! She came over again and I gave her a hug and thanked her.

After I had a bite to eat I left but said goodbye and thank you once again.

I walked back to my car with a smile on my face and a lift to my step. But then, I started to think...what does one do after a cute waitress buys them a drink? Was she just being nice, or flirting, or expecting an offer for dinner or a drink in return?

I decided to not do anything based on the gut feeling that she was just being nice. The whole thing just caught me off guard, you know?

Posted by bbarton at June 4, 2006 10:09 PM

Comments

duuuuuuuuude....you left without getting her phone number??

Posted by: Andy on June 5, 2006 09:48 AM

was she flirting? UMmmm. YAH. Very flattering, way to go Bob!! :) If you're interested I'd go back, soon, and an invite to dinner is not a bad idea, IMO. Good luck!

Posted by: Leigh on June 5, 2006 07:26 PM

Considering you are a pretty good looking guy, I would say flirting for sure.

Posted by: Katy on June 6, 2006 01:08 PM

Andy - Dude! The last time someone bought me a drink...well...that's actually never happened since the last time I dated I wasn't legal to drink.

Leigh - Oh boy...gotta think this one through...and soon! lol

Katy - Pretty good looking? Thanks. :)

Posted by: Bob on June 6, 2006 01:15 PM

Did I mention I saw her walking arm-in-arm downtown Saturday with that guy you were chatting with Friday night at the bar? I think she has a thing for barflies.

Posted by: David on June 7, 2006 09:25 AM

David - Oh! That's a relief! Here I was thinking there was something special about me.

Posted by: Bob on June 7, 2006 09:32 AM

awww Dave - you're a buzzkill! LOL

Posted by: Leigh on June 9, 2006 08:00 AM
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