March 29, 2006
Another dream or You must think I'm crazy.
So, in one post I say boobs will make me feel better and then I have dreams like this one I had last night.
I was at the wake because the casket was open. I went to touch Mary's hand and it was warm so I started to say something. Mary told me not to say anything because she couldn't stay for long but only came back so that she could hold me one more time. As I hugged her the dream switched to something else but I don't remember what.
Posted by bbarton at March 29, 2006 08:52 AMComments
Sweet man, has it occured to you that she really did come back to give you that message? How wonderful is that?
Posted by: kari on March 29, 2006 09:55 AMMy mother would have told you that your wife was really contacting you. She is trying to help you ease into a life without her. Sounds good to me.
Posted by: Katy on March 29, 2006 10:30 AMI still dream of my mum and my twin being alive. In a way the dead are alive that way and it's real. As real as when you wake up and you're alone. Which is awful. But the love isn't. YOU'RE NOT CRAZY. Just suffering. But still you can go with the love. Believe it.
Posted by: grannyp on March 29, 2006 06:08 PMI'm sure she's still reading your blog and wanted to give you one more eyeroll for the boob post.
Posted by: David on March 29, 2006 06:43 PMAmazing dream Bob. Maybe it wasn't so much of a dream, but a true message from Mary! She is giving you a little "jab" for the boob comments for sure! LOL!
Posted by: Ashley on March 29, 2006 07:37 PMOh yes, she's always with you Bob. I hope you see her again.
Posted by: Caroline on March 29, 2006 08:19 PMI had the same kind of dreams about my grandmother and my sister. In one my grandmother drove up in a small Japanese economy car (in life she drove a big-ass cadillac, although she was a tiny woman) and she seemed very happy and I remember in my dream thinking "Wait. She's dead. I should say something about that.", but she seemed so happy that I just enjoyed the visit.
My sister has shown up in a couple of my dreams too. The one I remember the best is where she was sitting on my bed and we were hanging out and chatting and again I thought "wait. she's dead. she shouldn't be here." but I didn't want to make her go away so I didn't say anything about it then either.
I think sometimes, when we need them, our loved ones really do come back and visit us. It's sad but it's also comforting, somehow.
sounds like a very calming dream- I've had dreams like that and then you wake up and this feeling of complete disapointment takes you over.
Posted by: Christie on March 29, 2006 08:57 AMJust remember she's always with you