Miss Marisol wrote about a bad school bus memory so I thought I'd share some of mine.
First of all, you either caught the bus or you walked to school. For many years my parents had one car and even if they had 100, you missed the bus you either walked or rode your bike to school.
For the most part, if you wanted to go anywhere you walked, rode your bike, or hoped someone else's parents would be willing to supply the ride. I can recall walking four miles to the high school for play practice in a snowstorm because my ride there got sick. I trudged through the snow and got there to find all the cars leaving because of the snow. Nobody was going my way so I turned around a walked back home. The only concern, on my parent's part, was whether I got home on time or not.
Anyway, the bus ride for me was pure hell until I got into high school. Why? Because my Younger Sister would torment me and beat me up. I'd end up getting off of the bus half way home and walking the rest of the way. She'd beat me home and lock all the doors so I had to resort to breaking a pane of glass in the 9-pane door in order to get in the house. I bought those panes of glass by the dozen since I had to replace the broken glass.
The summer after my 8th grade year I started to grow. My sister and I were on our front lawn and she came running at me. She would throw me to the ground and hit me. If I hit her back I got in trouble for hitting a girl. This time, I stepped to the side, grabbed the back of her neck, and pushed her to the ground.
She got up, fuming mad, and made another run at me with the same results. I ran a short distance and turned around as she came running at me again. I had seen a move on some TV show and decided to give it a try...I grabbed both of her outstretched arms, planted my foot in her stomach as I fell back to the ground, and then flipped her over my head. She hit the ground with a resounding thud.
As she lay there trying to get back her breath I walked into the house and got a drink of water. The physical bullying ended that day but she still did her best to make my life miserable from an emotional and social standpoint. Fortunately, I had a year's headstart at high school to make friends and find my niche before having to deal with her again.
Posted by bbarton at October 6, 2005 10:07 AMIt is an uneasy truce at best. We can get along really well but then she'll decide to either be the hero (mom was really upset you didn't do xyz) or has her feelings hurt (I had a bloody nose and nobody called).
Posted by: Bob on October 6, 2005 03:51 PMLOL - That sounds just like me and my brother - In the end we got sent to different high schools.
Posted by: Karen on October 7, 2005 11:05 AMChildren can be so damn mean. I watched Without a Trace last night and was sobbing when it was done.
Posted by: kari on October 7, 2005 12:15 PMKaren - only one to choose from in our town
Kari - I've not seen that but kids can be mean.
Posted by: Bob on October 7, 2005 06:23 PMAhh! The good ol' days! Probably the roots of your karate were established that day. I remember being literally between you guys when I just knew punches were gonna start to fly! Actually, I think some head slapping might have transpired (over my head and onto each others)when we three went to see Xanadu!
Posted by: Alison on October 7, 2005 08:20 PMWhat a little tyrant! She definitely needed some kiddy xanax. That's just mean.
Although being a kid, in theory, is wonderful -- the lack of power over your immediate destiny is just painful to recall.
Posted by: miss marisol on October 7, 2005 08:26 PMAlison - I remember that night for sure...she could never stand the fact that you and I were friends...
Marisol - Yep, she was a tyrant and a bully for sure...
Posted by: Bob on October 7, 2005 10:03 PMhttp://www.ethelmae.com/yourvoice/messages/36021.shtml garyhoodlumnow
Posted by: lick on February 9, 2006 08:52 PM
That is really sad. I am always gobsmacked when I hear of siblings being really nasty to each other, 'cos my brother and I always got on so well, and still do. How are things between you now, as adults?
Posted by: Antipodeesse on October 6, 2005 03:43 PM